A Mere Phone Call

It's taken me a while to figure this out.  In my early years of ministry, I was highly energized to get things done for God!  Called to shepherd God's people and bring more people into God's Kingdom, I was at times feverish in my attempts to love the church and find new ways to reach those who don't know Him yet.  My life was all about output.  And I nearly burned out!

High octane ministry with no attention to the soul of the leader leads to an eventual crash.  My body was a mess.  My soul was worse.  But I thought ministry was all about "doing" for God?

Over the years, I have come to see that God is interested in my "being" as much as my "doing." There is a time for charging full-steam ahead.  There is a time for rest as well.  God delights in our learning, in our increasing knowledge, and our active skill development.  Good leadership and ministry require these things.  And God also delights in our time with Him, in our soul maturation, in our ongoing sanctification.  Sometimes God even initiates a time-out for us to let our souls catch up with our skills.

"And David shepherded them with integrity of heart, with skillful hand he led them." 
(Psalm 78:72)

Psalm 78 is a paradigm for spiritual leadership.  Skills and soul.  Output and input.  Doing and being.
What habits in your life and leadership attend to both your doing and being?  Do you have mentors for your skill development?  Do you have mentors for your soul?  How are you paying attention to both?

Receiving coaching on a regular basis has been a blessing for me as I allow a trusted colleague to probe in my life both sides of the equation.  I also thoroughly enjoy coaching others.  It's one of my favorite aspects of my current ministry.  To help a leader deepen with Christ all the while developing skills for ministry and moving towards God's future with ever-increasing courage is a great pleasure and honor.  How powerful a mere phone call!

As Terry Walling says, "God does a greater work in you so He can do a greater work through you!" - (www.leaderbreakthru.com)

Grace and Peace,

Kirk

         

The Forgotten Ways

                             "Go and make disciples of all nations..." (Matthew 28:19)

So much of Alan Hirsch's The Forgotten Ways (2nd ed.) is depressing, challenging, and encouraging all at the same time.  As a pastor for twenty three years, I have lived the weekly cycle of preaching and programming.  How to make next Sunday as good or better than the last?  How do we improve the church's programs to reach the city?  How do we keep people entertained so we can teach the truth?  Honestly, it gets exhausting. And the little question that gets a foothold in your mind is this: are we really making a difference?

Alan Hirsch observes:  "In the modern and the postmodern situation, the church is forced into the role of being little  more than a vendor of religious goods and services. And the end users of the church's services (namely, us) easily slip into the role of discerning, individualistic consumers, devouring the religious goods and services offered by the latest and best vendor. Worship, rather than being entertaining through aesthetically engaging the hearts and minds of the hearers, now become mere entertainment that aims at giving the participants transcendent emotional highs, much like the role of the 'feelies' in Aldous Huxley's Brave New World, where people go tot he movies merely to get a buzz."

Hirsch continues: "Church-growth exponents explicitly taught us how to market and tailor the product to suit target audiences. They told us to mimic the shopping mall, apply it to the church, and create a one-stop religious shopping experience catering to our every need.  In this they were sincere and well intentioned, but they must also have been totally ignorant of the ramifications of their counsel--because in the end the medium has so easily overwhelmed the message...consumerism has actually become the driving ideology of the church's ministry...I have come to the dreaded conclusion that we simply cannot consume our way into discipleship."

Somewhere along the way in my pastoral ministry I sensed this was true.  When I took a risk and made some radical changes to my philosophy of ministry and where I would put my time, I began to see real change.  Real Christian maturity was beginning to grow!

When I ask Christian leaders how Jesus developed leaders and disciples (same thing), they mention Jesus' pattern of time spent with the disciples, the mentoring, the teaching, and the on-the-job-training.  When I ask them how Jesus would raise up leaders today, they eventually concede that despite all the technology available today, discipleship is still a life-on-life event.  Jesus would spend time with small groups of people and pour His life into them.  It's slow. It's inefficient.  And it's life-changing!

When I began to pour precious hours into walking with people slowly through excellent material (www.vantagepoint3.org), then I began to see real discipleship take place. We were beyond consumption.  We were into mission.  And these folks were beginning to change their worlds for Christ!

As Christian leaders, are you making disciples?  Or are you reinforcing our culture's ever-increasing appetite for consumption?  Whom are you walking with?  Whom are you pouring into?

Are you ready to make the shift?

Blessings,
Kirk